Neurodiverse Love
Making the Invisible Visible in Mental Health
(Client)
Neurodiverse Love Podcast
(Year)
2026
(Services)
Story Strategy & Research, Impact Documentary
Relationship
Breakthrough
Documentary revealing how late neurodivergent diagnosis transforms struggling relationships into thriving partnerships. Currently in post-production.
When We Started Filming Relationship Stories and Found Systemic Gaps
Mona Kay's initial vision was clear: "We want to make a documentary about neurodiverse relationships to help couples communicate better."
As we began interviewing couples for this ongoing project, we discovered we weren't just documenting communication strategies. We were witnessing the impact of systems that weren't designed for neurological diversity.
The Problem: Invisible Differences in Relationship Support
Our research phase uncovered the real challenge. Traditional relationship advice often doesn't work for neurologically different partnerships. We came prepared to document communication strategies and expert insights about autism and ADHD in relationships.
What We're Discovering Goes Deeper
From our first interview session: A couple married thirty years before discovering they were neurodiverse. Decades of misunderstanding, resentment, and self-blame suddenly reframed through the lens of neurological difference.
"I spent years thinking I was broken," one partner shared. "The diagnosis didn't change who I am... it changed how I understand who I've always been."
Another conversation that shifted our focus: A couple describing how traditional therapy had actually harmed their relationship by treating neurological differences as relationship problems to be fixed.
"Our therapist kept trying to get him to make eye contact and be more emotionally expressive," one partner explained. "She was essentially asking him to mask his autism to save our relationship."
The Deeper Pattern We're Recognizing
These couples aren't broken. They're neurologically different and trying to navigate relationships in systems designed for neurotypical experiences.
The real story isn't about communication techniques. It's about what happens when people finally have language for experiences they've never been able to explain.
Our Role: Amplifying Invisible Experiences
We're documenting what it means to be neurodiverse in relationships, told by the people living that reality.
Late diagnosis bringing relief, not just challenges. Couples finding new ways to connect once they understand their neurological differences. The peace that comes with moving from shame to self-acceptance.
What We're Learning About Representation
When invisible differences become visible through authentic storytelling, both personal healing and systems change become possible.
These couples are teaching us... and will teach viewers... about accommodation, acceptance, and love that honors neurological diversity rather than trying to eliminate it.
Expected Impact: Professional Education and Community Building
Mental health professionals need training in neurodiverse relationship dynamics. When therapists understand neurological differences, they can create healing instead of harm.
But this goes beyond professional education. It's about creating community for people who've felt isolated by systems that don't understand their experiences.
Expected Outcomes:
Festival runs at neurodiversity and mental health film festivals
Coverage in autism advocacy publications and neurodiverse media outlets
Educational partnerships with organizations like Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Training resource for American Psychological Association (APA) continuing education
Validation and practical strategies for isolated couples
Evidence-based content for specialized therapy training programs
The Questions We're Carrying
How many relationships struggle not because of communication problems, but because they're trying to use tools designed for neurotypical partnerships?
What would mental health support look like if it honored neurological diversity rather than trying to normalize it?
What We're Still Grappling With
This project won't premiere until early 2026, so we're still in the vulnerable middle of discovery. We're learning as we go, trying to represent experiences we don't fully understand, relying on our participants to guide us toward authentic portrayal.
How do you document invisible differences without oversimplifying them? How do you create educational content that serves both neurodiverse couples and the professionals who support them?
The Invitation We're Extending
For couples who've felt broken by traditional relationship advice: you're not alone, and you're not the problem.
For mental health professionals: there's so much to learn from the people you're trying to serve.
For anyone navigating invisible differences: representation matters, and your stories can create change for others walking similar paths.
Premieres in early 2026
If this resonates with you, check out Mona's website and podcast, Neurodiverse Love.
Neurodiverse Love
Making the Invisible Visible in Mental Health
(Client)
Neurodiverse Love Podcast
(Year)
2026
(Services)
Story Strategy & Research, Impact Documentary
Relationship
Breakthrough
Documentary revealing how late neurodivergent diagnosis transforms struggling relationships into thriving partnerships. Currently in post-production.
When We Started Filming Relationship Stories and Found Systemic Gaps
Mona Kay's initial vision was clear: "We want to make a documentary about neurodiverse relationships to help couples communicate better."
As we began interviewing couples for this ongoing project, we discovered we weren't just documenting communication strategies. We were witnessing the impact of systems that weren't designed for neurological diversity.
The Problem: Invisible Differences in Relationship Support
Our research phase uncovered the real challenge. Traditional relationship advice often doesn't work for neurologically different partnerships. We came prepared to document communication strategies and expert insights about autism and ADHD in relationships.
What We're Discovering Goes Deeper
From our first interview session: A couple married thirty years before discovering they were neurodiverse. Decades of misunderstanding, resentment, and self-blame suddenly reframed through the lens of neurological difference.
"I spent years thinking I was broken," one partner shared. "The diagnosis didn't change who I am... it changed how I understand who I've always been."
Another conversation that shifted our focus: A couple describing how traditional therapy had actually harmed their relationship by treating neurological differences as relationship problems to be fixed.
"Our therapist kept trying to get him to make eye contact and be more emotionally expressive," one partner explained. "She was essentially asking him to mask his autism to save our relationship."
The Deeper Pattern We're Recognizing
These couples aren't broken. They're neurologically different and trying to navigate relationships in systems designed for neurotypical experiences.
The real story isn't about communication techniques. It's about what happens when people finally have language for experiences they've never been able to explain.
Our Role: Amplifying Invisible Experiences
We're documenting what it means to be neurodiverse in relationships, told by the people living that reality.
Late diagnosis bringing relief, not just challenges. Couples finding new ways to connect once they understand their neurological differences. The peace that comes with moving from shame to self-acceptance.
What We're Learning About Representation
When invisible differences become visible through authentic storytelling, both personal healing and systems change become possible.
These couples are teaching us... and will teach viewers... about accommodation, acceptance, and love that honors neurological diversity rather than trying to eliminate it.
Expected Impact: Professional Education and Community Building
Mental health professionals need training in neurodiverse relationship dynamics. When therapists understand neurological differences, they can create healing instead of harm.
But this goes beyond professional education. It's about creating community for people who've felt isolated by systems that don't understand their experiences.
Expected Outcomes:
Festival runs at neurodiversity and mental health film festivals
Coverage in autism advocacy publications and neurodiverse media outlets
Educational partnerships with organizations like Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Training resource for American Psychological Association (APA) continuing education
Validation and practical strategies for isolated couples
Evidence-based content for specialized therapy training programs
The Questions We're Carrying
How many relationships struggle not because of communication problems, but because they're trying to use tools designed for neurotypical partnerships?
What would mental health support look like if it honored neurological diversity rather than trying to normalize it?
What We're Still Grappling With
This project won't premiere until early 2026, so we're still in the vulnerable middle of discovery. We're learning as we go, trying to represent experiences we don't fully understand, relying on our participants to guide us toward authentic portrayal.
How do you document invisible differences without oversimplifying them? How do you create educational content that serves both neurodiverse couples and the professionals who support them?
The Invitation We're Extending
For couples who've felt broken by traditional relationship advice: you're not alone, and you're not the problem.
For mental health professionals: there's so much to learn from the people you're trying to serve.
For anyone navigating invisible differences: representation matters, and your stories can create change for others walking similar paths.
Premieres in early 2026
If this resonates with you, check out Mona's website and podcast, Neurodiverse Love.
Neurodiverse Love
Making the Invisible Visible in Mental Health
(Client)
Neurodiverse Love Podcast
(Year)
2026
(Services)
Story Strategy & Research, Impact Documentary
Relationship
Breakthrough
Documentary revealing how late neurodivergent diagnosis transforms struggling relationships into thriving partnerships. Currently in post-production.
When We Started Filming Relationship Stories and Found Systemic Gaps
Mona Kay's initial vision was clear: "We want to make a documentary about neurodiverse relationships to help couples communicate better."
As we began interviewing couples for this ongoing project, we discovered we weren't just documenting communication strategies. We were witnessing the impact of systems that weren't designed for neurological diversity.
The Problem: Invisible Differences in Relationship Support
Our research phase uncovered the real challenge. Traditional relationship advice often doesn't work for neurologically different partnerships. We came prepared to document communication strategies and expert insights about autism and ADHD in relationships.
What We're Discovering Goes Deeper
From our first interview session: A couple married thirty years before discovering they were neurodiverse. Decades of misunderstanding, resentment, and self-blame suddenly reframed through the lens of neurological difference.
"I spent years thinking I was broken," one partner shared. "The diagnosis didn't change who I am... it changed how I understand who I've always been."
Another conversation that shifted our focus: A couple describing how traditional therapy had actually harmed their relationship by treating neurological differences as relationship problems to be fixed.
"Our therapist kept trying to get him to make eye contact and be more emotionally expressive," one partner explained. "She was essentially asking him to mask his autism to save our relationship."
The Deeper Pattern We're Recognizing
These couples aren't broken. They're neurologically different and trying to navigate relationships in systems designed for neurotypical experiences.
The real story isn't about communication techniques. It's about what happens when people finally have language for experiences they've never been able to explain.
Our Role: Amplifying Invisible Experiences
We're documenting what it means to be neurodiverse in relationships, told by the people living that reality.
Late diagnosis bringing relief, not just challenges. Couples finding new ways to connect once they understand their neurological differences. The peace that comes with moving from shame to self-acceptance.
What We're Learning About Representation
When invisible differences become visible through authentic storytelling, both personal healing and systems change become possible.
These couples are teaching us... and will teach viewers... about accommodation, acceptance, and love that honors neurological diversity rather than trying to eliminate it.
Expected Impact: Professional Education and Community Building
Mental health professionals need training in neurodiverse relationship dynamics. When therapists understand neurological differences, they can create healing instead of harm.
But this goes beyond professional education. It's about creating community for people who've felt isolated by systems that don't understand their experiences.
Expected Outcomes:
Festival runs at neurodiversity and mental health film festivals
Coverage in autism advocacy publications and neurodiverse media outlets
Educational partnerships with organizations like Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Training resource for American Psychological Association (APA) continuing education
Validation and practical strategies for isolated couples
Evidence-based content for specialized therapy training programs
The Questions We're Carrying
How many relationships struggle not because of communication problems, but because they're trying to use tools designed for neurotypical partnerships?
What would mental health support look like if it honored neurological diversity rather than trying to normalize it?
What We're Still Grappling With
This project won't premiere until early 2026, so we're still in the vulnerable middle of discovery. We're learning as we go, trying to represent experiences we don't fully understand, relying on our participants to guide us toward authentic portrayal.
How do you document invisible differences without oversimplifying them? How do you create educational content that serves both neurodiverse couples and the professionals who support them?
The Invitation We're Extending
For couples who've felt broken by traditional relationship advice: you're not alone, and you're not the problem.
For mental health professionals: there's so much to learn from the people you're trying to serve.
For anyone navigating invisible differences: representation matters, and your stories can create change for others walking similar paths.
Premieres in early 2026
If this resonates with you, check out Mona's website and podcast, Neurodiverse Love.